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My husband drinks once or twice a week usually drinking for two or three straight days, not going to his job when he feels bad and making us to live anxious fearing that something bad can happen to him. Every week he promises that he will change, but when he goes out to work and if he is offered a drink he forgets everything and gets back home drunk and sick, to the point of being unable to walk , wets the bed and wants to go out again and keep drinking. We always made plans to move forward and can not, because I get upset. We were separated for a while, then he returned but not to live as a married couple until he really changes his behaviour but he told me he had already changed and now the situation is worse, sometimes disappearing for a week and staying dirty, unkempt. He says he is willing to withdraw but when he sees any liquor he can not help it. I have told him that I do not want him to live with us anymore , then he cries and begs for help and I do not know what to do. I said to him that I was going to live with another man, because I can not live like this anymore. We have a son and do not want him to continue seeing this picture of his father but just a good example of a solid home, not the one that is dragging us all these years. During the time he stayed off he would not give any money and was just dedicated to drinks, friends and girlfriends. I really do not know what to do!.
